I have a bad evening.
Sometimes outcome is not always what you want it to be... upset...
The first thing I learnt today:
"
In life, depending on the situation, never be too honest. The reason is that sometimes you could just hurt yourself."
The meaning is quite close to this chinese phrase - "对人家仁慈就系对自己残忍"
The next thing I learnt today:
"
Learn to accept feedbacks, be it good or bad. This is the way to improvement."
