Why people wants to get married and then divorce?!
After hearing so many things about marriage, I'm so afraid of it! It's so scary! I seriously don't understand why can't people just make a clear decision before they get married?! Why rush into a marriage and want a divorce in the end? Do you know that this may/can/will hurt the people around you?! These people are innocent parties, why hurt them so deeply? They did nothing wrong. I don't just hear 1 or 2 such situations, but I have heard a lot! So much so that I don't wish to get into a marriage, so much so that I don't wish to settle down so soon and want to enjoy life. I have heard male married friend telling me that he feels so restricted, no freedom after marriage. I have heard that people wants a divorce because he/she realises that he/she doesn't love the person whom they are with now. I have heard that people want to divorce because they realise that it's difficult living under the same roof. I have heard that people saying that their partner is a different person before and after marriage. I have heard that woman wants to keep her husband, decided to bear him a lot of babies, hoping that she will be able to keep him by her side. What's on earth does people want? Why can't just find an optimal solution and live peacely? In real life, couple can't live happily ever after? No wonder why there is a saying that goes like this "fairytales are written dreams". I remember that there was once my friends and I were talking about this topic, and we conclude something that it's hard to find loving old couple who walk hand in hand on the street. It's really true. People, think through it, as you are walking along the streets(any street), how many times did you come across old couple who are still very loving, who walk hand in hand, who show care and concern for each other etc? I can tell you that I saw few, maybe 1 or 2 out of 10 couple? I really envy them. I wonder how they can do it. Is it because that they have been through thick and thin together? I have heard from people who have asked them before, and their answer is to compromise. I guess compromise is the key to marriage.

dear dear told me that he believes in the saying that goes like this "you reap what you sow". I know that this saying is true in one sense, but does it apply to the above? I'm seriously confused. Love hurts.

I really hope to see more loving couple on the streets... and hopefully I will be one of the loving couple.