different ppl have different point of view. u may think tt u have ur own valid reason n so u r right, but to others, u may b wrong. likewise, others may think tt they r right, but u think they r wrong. so does this mean there is no "right reason" behind everything tt r done either this way or tt way? due to such different perspective, quarrels n arguments take place. so does this mean tt quarrels n argument r the only "solution" to everything? y can't ppl sit down n talk it out peacefully? is this "must-win" mindset innate in every human beings? with this "must-win" mindset, will there b peace one day? thot of the day: understanding is needed in every r/s, b it BGR, kinship or friendship.